Community Guidelines

Wrthy strives to bring more safety, accountability, and transparency to online dating.

Our community is a safe space for women to ask about the guys they meet online, protect each other, and support one another with dating and relationship advice.

Our promise to our members:

1. We protect your right to anonymity and free speech. 
2. We welcome all reviews, and will not edit, censor, or delete reviews unless they violate our community guidelines.
3. We verify every member’s identity. Anyone who doesn’t pass the identity verification, or intentionally impersonates another person–living or dead–will not be allowed to join Wrthy.
4. We moderate all reviews. Members who do not follow our guidelines will be removed from Wrthy.
5. We don’t take sides. We can only take action on reviews/member activities that are in direct violation of our guidelines.

Our guidelines:

Remember, Wrthy is what you make it.

• Respect and look out for your fellow members.

We have a zero tolerance policy for bullying, harassment, shaming, slurs, stereotyping, insults, threats, aggressive behavior and hate speech. Inappropriate, unwanted sexual content will also not be tolerated.

• Respect the men in yours and members’ lives.

Wrthy is not the place to hate on men. Members who write mean, judgemental, or irrelevant reviews will be reported and removed.  

• If you see something, say something.

Please report members who violate our guidelines, and/or are a potential danger to themselves or others. Immediately report reviews that display violent threats, wishes of harm to other members, incite acts of violence or harm, or celebrate acts of violence.

• Only review guys you personally know.

Avoid reviewing guys you don’t know very well (e.g. “friend of a friend,” “I saw him at a bar downtown”). Keep your reviews honest, helpful, and positive. Any reviews deemed inappropriate or irrelevant will be reported and/or removed. 

• Only post reviews and comments intended to help other members.

Share what you know about the guys other members have matched with. Share advice if members ask for it. Join in on conversations only if you have something positive and/or helpful to add. 

• What you see on Wrthy, stays on Wrthy.

Don’t screenshot and/or share reviews with anyone outside of Wrthy. Don’t look up, stalk, or contact guys whose profiles have been added, or guys you know. Don’t reveal your identity or other members’ identities, or reveal any sensitive information about you and/or them.